Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus Vs Marriage and Family Therapy Program

National Geographic, This will be a to some degree dubious article. The reason is that I am going to look at what I realized in my two year Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) Master's system to what I have gained from Dr. John Gray, the creator of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. In 2005, I selected into the MFT program at the University Of Louisiana At Monroe (ULM), which is the main dually credited system in the United States giving you the chance to wind up authorized in both the field of Counseling and the field of Marriage And Family Therapy.

National Geographic, When I selected, I had as of now perused all of Dr. John Gray's books including, obviously, his most understood book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Indeed, I had perused a significant number of his books various times, and also watched and listened to most, if not all, of his video tapes and DVD's. Likewise, I had additionally had the chance to work for Dr. Dim on a few events. I say this in light of the fact that at the time I realized that, incidentally, Dr. John Gray and his educating were frequently not all around enjoyed or regarded in the scholastic circles particularly in the fields of brain science, directing, or marriage and family treatment. What's more, not long after I enlisted I discovered this was additionally the case in our project. I immediately found that some of my teachers did not think profoundly of him either.

So how would I think the marriage and family treatment program contrasted with what I have gained from Dr. Dark and from his arrangement of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus books?

National Geographic, For a very long time I have attempted to locate the right words to analyze and accommodate my two encounters. To start with, I genuinely couldn't generally even start to look at the two. I thought the measure of handy shrewdness and experiences that I had gained from my tutor couldn't be contrasted with what I realized in my MFT program. I felt it was like attempting to contrast feeding crisp natural apples with a highly contrasting picture of oranges imprinted in a bit of paper. I thought they were not even in the same classification.

In my MFT program, I found out about numerous hypotheses about how to approach helping somebody with an issue or question, whether around an individual, relationship, marriage, or family issue. I found out about the significance of various aptitudes in the helping callings like tuning in, making inquiries, and being sympathetic. I got more than 500 hundred hours of practice with genuine people, couples, and families with genuine issues, regularly under the supervision or direction of some of my companions, teachers, or directors behind a restricted mirror.

I took after the whole course work effectively. I scored one of the most noteworthy scores, if not the most elevated, on our last examination in our graduating class. However, I regularly felt like I didn't saw the amount of anything that I had educated could apply in my own life or be helpful to any other individual. The majority of the hypotheses that I found out about were clarified utilizing extravagant vocabulary and were frequently extremely entangled. I regularly got baffled since I sensed that I was making a decent attempt to make some squeezed orange from an orange. Yet, incredibly, dissatisfaction, and wonderment nothing was frequently turning out. I couldn't comprehend why.